Monday, January 19, 2015
But today we were informed that Wisconsin men's hockey player Eddie Wittchow will receive a two game suspension for his hit to the head in Saturday's game.
The quality of this video isn't great since, you know, women's hockey is never televised, but here you'll see Minnesota's Dani Cameranesi and Wisconsin's Mellissa Channell get tangled up and hit the ice. Then you'll see Cameraniesi deliver a cross-check to Channell's head. No penalty is called.
The sequence that follows this is that Channell is unable to get off the ice. She kind of stumbles around the ice and falls down two more times before actually tripping a Gopher and receiving a penalty of her own. That penalty needed to be served by a different Badger as Channell left the ice. She didn't return. She also didn't play in Wisconsin's two games this past weekend because she had a "head injury" (Read: concussion).
Now here's Wittchow (and the ensuing brawl)
The thing is, are they very different? Clearly both were intentional. The two biggest differences are that Cameranesi received no punishment of any kind and that Channell was injured on the play. The Minnesota player in Wittchow's exchange is not.
Look, there will always be inconsistencies in refereeing and I try my best not to use them as an excuse to complain too much. But this is a glaring gulf and it led to a player having brain issues, so it feels like it should be addressed.
There's a ref just feet from Cameranesi and Channell. What was he watching? What purpose does he serve if not to make sure that players aren't receiving checks to the back of their heads?
(To be clear, I'm not picking on Cameranesi here - there were plenty of other plays on both sides of this game that weren't clean and should have been called. I don't think she's dirty and I don't want this to be about her specifically.)
The only reason this at all becomes any sort of men's versus women's issue is that the lack of experienced refs in women's college hockey is a long, exhausted argument. They aren't trained, developed and honed in the way that they are on the men's side. Is that why this play was missed? I don't know. But I know that Wittchow's hit was reviewed and he was charged appropriately.
No one can go back and call a penalty in Channell's case, but I find it disappointing that the WCHA didn't review anything after a player was too injured to serve her own penalty. Why wasn't that a red flag?
I was told WCHA officials were in the house for that series. I hope they were as appalled by the refs as we all were and then highly embarrassed.
Had Team USA won the gold medal, I think we'd talk about 2014 like we do the 1999 World Cup. Even though that didn't happen, I think that when you're talking to high school and college aged hockey players in 10-15 years, they'll tell you they remember watching Sochi the way that the current crop of players talk about watching the 1998 Olympics (the first time women's hockey competed).
In 2014, Hilary Knight, Meghan Duggan and Julie Chu became household names. Collegiate hockey games were televised. We had the first NCAA winner from outside the WCHA. Shannon Szabados and Noora Raty continued to forge the way for women to play at the highest levels as they played in men's leagues in the US and Finland. Knight practiced with the Anaheim Ducks and it was a media sensation. The CWHL was formed, had the All-Star game and became a part of the sports landscape.
The online stream of the Olympic gold medal game was NBC Sports second most-watched stream, behind the 2012 Super Bowl. They say 1.2 million unique users watched the game. A Google search will bring you YouTube reactions from across the globe. A friend who was playing professional soccer in the Netherlands tells me she watched it with her teammates. That game crossed all sports, fan and country boundaries.
And social media made accounts from national team players from all countries gave us unprecedented acccess. From pre-Olympic silliness with the Lamoureux Twins to Swiss goalie Florence Schelling getting wheeled between venues. From Raty's post-Olympic blast of the lack of opportunities to Hilary Knight's Instagram, we've been allowed into the players' lives and been able to connect with them in a way that makes being a fan even more personal.
If there's a single moment, it's Kelli Stack's empty net shot that hit the post late in the game. It's no Miracle on Ice or Brandi Chastain on her knees, but that single image of the puck glancing off is one that will remain.
But instead of one seminal moment, I think instead we'll look back at a combination of all these things and see that this influx of women's hockey in the general consciousness brought more little girls to the ice, made it easier for little girls to play, helped form more teams of girls and generally brought an influx of players in a way that nothing else has done before it.
And maybe that's not anything ground-breaking. And maybe it was inevitable. But it doesn't happen without the correct collection of people/personalities. And it doesn't happen without the spectacular product that was put on the ice.
That gold medal game was heart-breaking, but I'm pretty sure I'll still be talking about Sochi in 20 years. The collection of pure talent that was on the ice in these games will be difficult to match and the way that I was invested in every shift, every face-off and every goal was personal.
Maybe that's the new normal. Maybe we'll always have that, but it's too soon to tell, so instead I'm going to cherish it and anoint 2014 as special.
And know that when I talk to college girls in 2025, they'll be telling me how it changed their lives to meet Meghan Duggan and watch her on screen. There isn't a doubt in my mind that more little girls had the confidence to pursue women's hockey because of Duggan, Poulin, Knight and Szabados et, al.
Monday, January 12, 2015
I wasn't able to watch Sunday's Packer game, but I did see plenty of reactionary tweets and Facebook posts and many of them involved some version of calling the Dallas Cowboys the "Cowgirls" and Tony Romo a "p&%sy."
When, oh when, will people see that calling someone a girl isn't an insult? That it's not derogatory. It's so, so tired to imply weakness by calling someone a girl.
This version of casual sexism is so deeply ingrained in our collective consciousness that most people don't even know they're doing it.
Whenever the Packers play the Cowboys or Vikings, my Facebook and Twitter are filled with normally open-minded and intelligent people - women even - calling them the Cowgirls and ViQueens. These folks are just so damn chuffed with themselves and their own cleverness (See what I did there?!)
If I were to point out the casual sexism to each of these people, they'd tell me to stop being so sensitive or that they don't really mean it. They don't see that having casual conversations in which it's assumed women are weak and funny and a joke are harmful to their wives, sisters and most importantly, sons and daughters.
They don't see that when they treat women as the butt of a joke, they teach those around them to believe the same thing. They reinforce deeply ingrained stereotypes, insecurities and beliefs. They certainly don't believe they're being sexist, because the habitual sexism is so invasively interwoven into our habits, language, and traditions.
Sexism is real. It's subtle and it's damaging
Let me tell you a story:
I have a female cousin who's less than two years older than me. She has two tweenage daughters. At a family gathering within this past year she spent a long time recounting one of her daughters softball experience. She talked about volunteering with the team and how the daughter is pitching. She talked about how the daughter has ebbs and flows of success and how the coach thinks she could be quite good, but ultimately, what she really lacks is confidence. My cousin harped on how she just couldn't understand why her daughter couldn't keep it together and have consistent success and how she couldn't understand the lack of confidence.
Less than 10 minutes later her brother's young son was in the yard throwing a ball and the same cousin yelled at him that he "throws like a girl." She proceeded to laugh at him and tell him he throws like a girl about 5 more times.
But remember, she can't understand why her own daughter lacks the confidence to be successful in sports.
And while we're having this discussion, let's just go ahead and remind you that any LGBTQ slurs used to insult and imply weakness are also not ok.
Random aside that I found interesting and haven't come up with a conclusion about, but thought should be shared because these conversations should and do have many layers:
This post is influenced on a conversation had with my friend Liz, which led me to a very interesting crossroads. She posted about the problem on FB and she had a friend that said "Oh, I never do this --- except when I call Jay Cutler 'Jay Cuntler'" and said it was because he can't stand him.
I wondered if he only thought that was amusing because it was tantamount to calling Cutler a p&%sy.
This brought about an argument about whether the use of the p&%sy is gendered, which I argued it is. But that's not the conundrum. My argument in favor of it being gendered is that women don't call each other p&%sy. As Liz pointed out, they do, however, call each other c%nt.
I wanted to argue that women don't view p&%sy and c%nt interchangeably. The problem, of course, is that I started by asking if the guy was using them essentially interchangeably. I can't have it both ways.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
As a Packer fan, I’m not thrilled about playing the Bears. When it comes to rivalries as old as this one, it’s not as simple as who is the better team. I love how well the Packers have been playing and I think they can win, but you never know what can happen in a Bears/Packers game. One of the teams could be horrible the rest of the season but come out with a victory in this game. There's pride and history on the line - that's so much more important that just a simple win or loss.
Aaron Rodgers was so effective against Atlanta due to his ability to hit some pinpoint passes. I don’t think he’ll be able to do that as effectively in the cold in Chicago. Footing was a huge issue in the Bears/Seahawks game and though they seem to have found a running game recently, the Packers have had problems on the ground all season and the likely-sloppy conditions aren’t going to help. The Bears didn't seem to have the same footing problems as the Seahawks, so it is to be hoped that the Packers can figure out the "secret."
One of the Packers biggest negatives is Special Teams. It's so depressing to watch, really. When was the last time the Packers were a threat to break a run-back for points? There's just no threat of the Packers getting major yardage on kickoff and punt returns. That's a completely missed opportunity on McCarthy's part. This potent offense would have been even better if the Packers could have won the field position battle at any point this season.
They’re going to have to hope they can keep Devin Hester in check and not give the Bears a short field the whole game.
That being said, the Packers are going to be UP for this game. Cutler managed a whole games against the Seahawks without being Jay Cutler and I can’t imagine that will last for another 60 minutes, especially against the Packers secondary.